Troubles That Include Dating A Mexican..
hey guys welcome back to our Channel that which was that? 2 weeks back we made a video where Joss was talking about the difficulties that include dating a German with dating him, exclusively effectively.. nicely nowadays we’re about to have you been okay? We have allergic reactions dude! nowadays we’re going to change it all around and I’m going to let you know every one of the difficulties that come with dating a Mexican a lot more specifically, this unique 1 here I’m so scared of this video! I’m about to get offended big time nevertheless i know you love me and I know you confidentially adore all of the reasons for having me you imagine so? I’m sure not every them how dare you guy simply because like I mentioned before: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say . I like Mexicans. I adore that one especially Mexico is an extremely diversified region and so are the individuals.. yes that’s quite true we are available in each color, personality, shape and form so we don’t would like to generalize nearly anything.. sexy talk in spanish we’re not declaring that each Mexican does those things! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn Spanish and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be ready to satisfy around 100 or 200 people a day that happen to be area of the family which can be only part of the family! If it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico, not even friends I don’t know: the food you will gain excess weight which is a result of a couple of things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! plus additionally it’s tough to refuse due to the fact Mexican foods are very delicious Oh my our god I overlook it a whole lot make sure you give me Enchiladas Potosinas please! for me too remember to one other reason why you’re about to get extra fat due to meals are due to the fact it’s cost effective compared to Germany accurate! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m actually also delayed I’m like Mexican.. you’re fifty percent Mexican that’s in fact a stereotype which i hate I dislike when people say: you’re going to be delayed simply because you’re Mexican but I’m late at all times! regardless if I try out my greatest that’s some thing I’ve had trouble with eternally the subsequent point i was required to become accustomed to a great deal: you may get terrified whilst driving I don’t want to travel in Mexico and also once your partner, in this case she, is driving a car Mexico you, feel like: exactly where are the guidelines? where would be the outlines on the ground that tell you by which lane you have to go along with the holes guy oh yeah my the lord there may be 1 streets I must take each and every time I check out my home they have numerous pockets.. I figured out them my coronary heart I’m like when you are getting with an intersection there is not really a guideline which says who is able to go initial Sure! – additionally, there are no indicators you typically let me know, the main one within the largest neighborhood may go initial but for some reason all of the Mexicans know where you should drive it’s good sense bro! it was actually the worst in Mexico Town there seemed to be one very hectic street so we were actually from a tiny road and all of the folks from the little neighborhood have been just going similar to this around all the other vehicles in Mexico City I saw my entire life go through my brain for actual like seven periods and also the individuals from the ubers had been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the climate right now? conversing with us in the end is actually quite amazing since Mexicans truly realize how to drive in ridiculous situations! ok the subsequent position can be a funny a single and also a sad 1.. often for squares of potty paper is all that you’ll get exactly where do you practical experience that? significantly! we had been within a market in Mexico Metropolis and that i needed to see the bathroom and this guy in-front literally provided me with four squares of toilet paper right here, do your personal style! and that i was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and so i advised him: may i have yet another one? I didn’t know it was a difficulty for yourself After all in Germany you can find potty document appropriate next to the lavatory.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah fine that doesn’t occur often.. We have to say this happened like two times to me haha he’s overreacting! When I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that before – in the toilet she would ask you: primary or # 2? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. But no, i don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”! this is merely how they are they’re this way so don’t get your dreams up -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous, they’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine! and I’m not making him venture out! ” which is a tiny bit excessive people but must i point out to you of last night? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like -fine you will be like.. so when I started dating you I used to be like “whoa a whole new w0rld! ” I have a hypothesis although and that i know this really is going to cause me to audio nuts but hear me out I seem like a great deal of this thinking is designed by telenovelas. Don’t can come for me! perhaps you have noticed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are really extraordinary and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s never about to acquire him clear of me! ” why is this young lady looking at you? this foolish $·Percent·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense If you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes, i have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect sleepovers and that’s a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany men can remain with the girlfriend’s home or women can say the boyfriend’s residence even when they’re below 18, possibly 16 they may stop at the female friends of boyfriend’s property sinners! and in Mexico they think the most awful of folks, that they are performing some extremely poor things which they are unable to do any place else just about the most repeated information I recieve from married couples is women that are desperately wondering me how did you make Janik know that he could not stay? or how can I make my parents comprehend? it’s so hard. -it’s a hardship on us as well -yes either side because at the start you couldn’t understand it you had been like “I don’t get it” I used to be 22 or 23 years once we began dating and so i was like “I’m so older and I are not able to be in the identical room as her” and my sibling is even older and her boyfriend couldn’t keep there I’m a grown-up. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. If it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss, – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know!